First off, I would like to thank my husband for updating this blog after Wilhelm arrived!
I guess I would have to start by saying his labor really did start on Sunday the 3rd as those contractions continued through Monday and Tuesday. I guess that it was made my "real" labor only 6 hours with pushing for another 3 hours.
Went to bed Tuesday evening and woke at 12:30 am to use the bathroom. When I came back to bed I could tell that the contractions were much more painful. I waiting for 3 of them before waking my husband. He jumped in the shower and got dressed and I did the same. We were in the car at 1:30 and arrived at the hospital at 2:30.
They set me up on the monitor and contractions were anywhere from 3-5 minutes apart. I could not talk through them, but the nurse thought I was not "working hard enough" through them. So after listening to baby for about 45 minutes, she let us up to walk. We walked the halls until I felt the need to come lay down. By this point I was making noises during the contractions.
I'm not remember the times very well, but I think it was between 5:30 and 6am when she finally checked me. When a very surprised look she said "wow, you are really dilated. I would say 6cm". At this point she started checking me in and called the dr.
It was only 3 contractions before the doctor arrived and I was at 9cm! She broke my water and said I could start pushing if I wanted to. Wow, I could not believe how "easy" the labor part was!!!
Pushing was a problem. Just like last time, I never felt the urge to push. Also I was having AWFUL back labor and pushing was the last thing I wanted to do as I was trying to get through the back pain with each contraction.
I was told it took me a good hour to used to pushing and then another 30+ minutes to stop fighting the contractions because of the pain. So, even though I was pushing for 3 hours it was only just over an hour of "good pushing".
Pushing through so much pain was awful. I was begging for something for the pain, but of course there was nothing I could have at this point. I was having a hard time getting the baby's head to come past my old scar that was not stretching at all. The nurse was great and kept encouraging me to squat but I was too tired. She brought in the birthing stool and set it on the bed. Sitting on it intensified the pain sooooo much, but it allowed the baby's head to come out in the next push and didn't go back in. In the next push he was out!
Wilhelm's 14 3/4 inch head did not come out without doing damage. It took an hour to get stitched up and put back together. I am so swollen I can't sit and walking is very hard. I'm told it will get better, but I'm wondering how long.
But it was ALL worth it and my HG baby is perfectly healthy. We are home now and the other children are loving on their baby brother so much.
Thanks for all the congratulations comments!